" Some periods of our growth are so confusing that we don’t even recognize that growth is happening. We may feel hostile or angry or weepy and hysterical, or we may feel depressed. It would never occur to us, unless we stumbled on a book or a person who explained to us, that we were in fact in the process of change, of actually becoming larger, spiritually, than we were before. Whenever we grow, we tend to feel it, as a young seed must feel the weight and inertia of the earth as it seeks to break out of its shell on its way to becoming a plant. Often the feeling is anything but pleasant. But what is most unpleasant is the not knowing what is happening. Those long periods when something inside ourselves seems to be waiting, holding its breath, unsure about what the next step should be, eventually become the periods we wait for, for it is in those periods that we realize that we are being prepared for the next phase of our life and that, in all probability, a new level of the personality is about to be revealed. "

seriously considering chopping off all my hair to like shoulder length mia wallace style what do you guys think 

Anonymous: how are you and your boy anyways?! you never post about him anymore i miss it!!!!!!!!

haha we’re amazing! i am stupid in love and every moment is so fun with him. he basically moved into my apartment a few months ago (he spends about one night a month at his apt) and things have been awesome, i love waking up and falling asleep with him everyday and night. we went to my cousins wedding together last night and we danced and ate food and hung out with family and it was so fun! life is beautiful and i am grateful for everything everyday!!